Archive for July, 2011
Several decades ago, I was privileged to attend a presentation in the Chicago area held by psychiatrist Victor Frankl, author of Man’s Search for Meaning. Frankl’s family members were the unfortunate victims of the Holocaust during Nazi Germany’s reign in Europe. His family was killed, but he spent years in a concentration camp and survived. Frankl’s foundation for therapy was based on his experience and desire to see his patients develop a sense of meaning and purpose for their lives. I recall him saying, “When everything was taken away from me, all I had left was my attitude about was happening; I made a conscious choice not to be bitter.”
Often I deal with people who claim they’re bored with life. They claim incessantly about their relationships, prior history, level of activity, children and the vacuum that they feel within. There is no sense of direction or structure to their lies. Often, they turn to various forms of self-medicating or chronic activity to fill their void. Also, they may tend to derive their feeble sense of satisfaction from being an extension of other people’s lives. They have an exaggerated need to control or “fix others” and idealize about those who appear to have their lives in order. They’re fascinated by “heroes” and elevate them at the expense of their own self-identity.
There are little ways for all of us to find meaning and purpose for our live by becoming less self-absorbed. In the process, of genuine involvement or sharing, it is important to remember that meaning is derived from what we accomplish, not because others choose to reciprocate. Sometimes the right thing to do is to be compassionate to others, whether they appreciated it or not. Finding meaning and purpose is about our responsibility, not how others react to us.
It is important to do the right thing because it makes us feel grateful, empowered and creates integrity. There are many ways all us can feel connected to the larger global community. Here are some examples:
Attend worship services and pray for the needs of others.
Treat people that annoy you with respect.
Volunteer time and service to community agencies, such as libraries, nursing homes and political organizations.
Give charitable donations to relief projects.
Give to the needs of those that are less fortunate.
Learn to be tolerant of other people’s perspectives that vary from your own.
Donate to breast cancer walks and other promotions for serious illnesses.
It is important to get your thinking in perspective. Look around you and then ask yourself, “How bad do I really have it?” If you’re whining or complaining, you may need a dose of reality by connecting with those who are vulnerable and less fortunate. Remember, doing good deeds is about deriving meaning, not focusing on the reactions and responses of others. Those who are involved in helping others and give graciously will find a sense of joy, purpose and satisfaction they never thought possible. All we have left when all is said and done is the content of our character and the quality of the relationships that we leave behind.
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